1. Cultivate Confidence
To achieve big things, first, you must
believe that you can. If we’re not sure we deserve to achieve big things, why
would we try, right? That's why the first thing we need to dream big is a
confidence boost.
To get this boost, try to remember
a time when you succeeded in doing something you set your mind to. Or, if you
have a hard time, look for role models that dared to dream big and achieve more
than was expected of them. Use your and others’ experiences as inspiration and
motivation.
2. Face Fear of Failure
If you want to do something big, the fear can be intense. We might think: What if we fail? What then? If this sounds like you, it may be helpful to shift your mindset or perspective. Developing a growth mindset—or the belief that growth and learning are more important than success or other people's opinions—can help you shift your focus to the journey instead of the end goal. That way we can better enjoy the pursuit, even if it ultimately does result in failure.
3. Face Fear of Success
We often think we don’t pursue big dreams because we’re afraid of failure. But what if we’re really afraid of success? Success can mean different things to different people—some of these things are scary. For example, success might mean feeling like the odd one out in your family or friend group. It might mean having more responsibility than you really want. Or, it could lead to jealousy from others. There are lots of reasons why you may have a fear of success. But taking a closer outlook at these fears and thinking about how you might deal with them can help you move through them.
4. Use Your Imagination
Start by visualizing a variety of
different possible exciting outcomes that might come from following your
dreams. Maybe you imagine yourself owning your own business, having a big
family, or traveling all over the world.
As you visualize, try to be
mindful, paying attention to how your body feels during each scenario. Try to
tune into how each experience feels in your body, and take note of any thoughts
or emotions that come up. Ask yourself:
- Does living this life feel good?
- Does living this life feel authentic?
- Does living this life feel like a big dream?
Use this visualization exercise to better understand which big dreams are a good fit for you.
5. Find Meaning
Many of us get stuck on the path towards small dreams (or the wrong dreams). Often, it’s because we have not yet deeply explored what really matters to us. To make sure our big dreams are meaningful, reflect on these different things that research shows give us meaning:
- Positive relations with others. Warm, trusting relationships with others.
- Self-acceptance. Holding positive attitudes about the self.
- Autonomy. Feeling free to choose and direct one's own actions.
- Environmental mastery. Feeling that one can change one's circumstances.
- Personal growth. The ability to develop and grow as a person.
- Life purpose. Having a sense of meaningful direction in life.
When dreaming big, try to keep
these things in mind to ensure your dreams will be meaningful to you and
inspire you to act on them.
6. Enjoy in the Process
Sometimes we end up spending so
much time focusing on our big dreams that we forget to enjoy the process.
Indeed, big dreams can help us imagine a life or a future that is unlike any
that we've ever known. But big dreams take time, and if we don’t enjoy the
process, it’s going to be tough to get there.
So, try to focus on the enjoyable
parts of creating your dream. You're taking control of your life, you're
building a new reality, and even small steps you take are worth celebrating. If
our dreams are truly meaningful to us, striving towards them can increase
well-being, regardless of whether we achieve the big goal at the end or not.
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